
Cemeteries are treasure troves for genealogy researchers. Headstones can reveal birth and death dates, family relationships, religious affiliations, military service, and more -- information that may not appear in any other record.
Step 1: Do Your Homework Online First
- Find a Grave -- Largest database of gravesites with millions of entries and GPS coordinates.
- BillionGraves -- GPS-tagged headstone photos.
- FamilySearch -- Free genealogy platform with cemetery records.
Step 2: Identify the Cemetery
Check death certificates, funeral home records, and obituaries. Use our search tool to find cemeteries by location, or browse by state.
Step 3: Prepare for Your Visit
- Camera (phone is fine) for documenting headstones
- Notebook and pen for recording observations
- Soft brush for clearing debris from inscriptions
- Spray bottle with water to make faded text readable
- Mirror or flashlight for side-lighting worn lettering
- Printed map or screenshot of the cemetery layout
Step 4: What to Look For
- Family groupings -- Family members are often buried near each other
- Maiden names -- Inscriptions like "wife of" or "nee" reveal maiden names
- Symbols and motifs -- Indicate religion, fraternal orders, or military service
- Epitaphs -- May reveal occupations, birthplaces, or cause of death
- Footstones -- Sometimes contain initials or additional information
Step 5: Check Cemetery Office Records
Sexton records often contain burial dates, plot locations, next of kin, funeral home used, and sometimes cause of death.
Pro tip: Photograph not just your ancestor's headstone, but the surrounding graves too. Nearby burials are often family members.
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