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Gravestone Symbols and Their Hidden Meanings

Marvin Smit
December 28, 202410 min readCulture
Gravestone Symbols and Their Hidden Meanings

Walk through any American cemetery and you will find headstones adorned with symbols that tell stories about the people buried beneath. From colonial-era death heads to Victorian-era flowers and modern military insignia, these symbols carry deep meaning. Here is a guide to the most common ones.

Early American Symbols (1600s-1700s)

The winged death head (a skull with wings) is one of the earliest cemetery art forms in America, most commonly seen on New England colonial graves. It served as a stark reminder of mortality. Beginning in the early 1800s, Americans replaced the winged death head with more hopeful symbols -- the winged cherub and soul effigy, representing the soul's flight to heaven.

Religious Symbols

  • Cross / Crucifix -- Represents eternal life and resurrection in Christianity
  • Star of David -- Identifies Jewish graves
  • Anchor -- Symbolizes hope that the deceased is "anchored" in heaven; also marks sailors' graves
  • Praying hands -- Devotion and submission to God's will
  • Open Bible -- Faith in scripture; sometimes shows a specific verse

Flowers and Plants

  • Rose -- Love, beauty, and hope. A broken rosebud indicates a life cut short, often found on young people's graves
  • Lily -- Purity and innocence, frequently on women's and children's graves
  • Weeping willow -- Mourning and grief, extremely popular in the late 1700s and early 1800s
  • Oak tree / Oak leaves -- Strength, endurance, and long life
  • Ivy -- Faithfulness, memory, and eternal life

Symbols of Life and Death

  • Butterfly -- Resurrection and transformation
  • Hourglass -- The passage of time; with wings, it means time flies
  • Scythe -- The Grim Reaper, or the "harvester of souls"
  • Broken column -- A life cut short, the "unfinished" pillar of existence
  • Draped urn -- A common Victorian symbol, the drape representing the veil between life and death
  • Lamb -- Innocence, typically on a child's grave

Fraternal and Military Symbols

  • Compass and square -- Freemasonry
  • Chain links (three links) -- Independent Order of Odd Fellows
  • Eagle -- Military service, patriotism, or courage
  • GAR star -- Grand Army of the Republic (Civil War Union veteran)

Tip for visitors: Next time you visit a cemetery near you, take a closer look at the headstones. Understanding these symbols can turn a simple visit into a fascinating history lesson. Pair this with cemetery photography tips to document what you find.

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