The loss of a child is among life's most devastating experiences. Across America, many cemeteries have dedicated children's sections or "babyland" areas that provide a special, comforting space for families.
History of Children's Sections
In the 19th century, as many as 1 in 4 children died before age five. Many cemeteries from that era have large children's sections marked by lambs, sleeping cherubs, and broken rosebuds -- symbols of innocence and a life cut short. Today, dedicated children's areas feature softer landscaping, benches for parents, and more relaxed decoration rules.
Types of Children's Memorials
- Dedicated children's gardens -- Child-friendly landscaping and seating
- Angel of Hope statues -- Gathering points for bereaved parents, inspired by Richard Paul Evans' novel
- Memorial walls -- Communal walls for inscribed names
- Scatter gardens -- Designated areas for cremated remains
Common Symbols on Children's Graves
- Lamb -- Innocence and purity
- Broken rosebud -- A life cut short
- Sleeping cherub -- Eternal rest
- Butterfly -- Transformation and the soul's flight
Learn more about gravestone symbols and their meanings.
Resources for Grieving Families
- The Compassionate Friends (compassionatefriends.org) -- Support groups for families after the death of a child
- Share Pregnancy & Infant Loss Support -- Resources for miscarriage, stillbirth, and infant death
Visiting etiquette: Children's sections are deeply emotional spaces. Be especially mindful of other visitors. Never touch or remove items left on graves.
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